How to Know When it Should Be Handwritten
We live in one of the most exciting times in history. Looking at this chart we can see that in a very short span of time (during our lifetimes, mind you) we've seen technological advancements being made at accelerated speeds, and it looks like things aren't slowing down.
A part of these technological advancements that hits very close to home with us everyday is our ability to communicate with other people almost as soon as we've had the thought to. Reaching another person is only a #tweet, text, FB message, or e-mail away. It's pretty awesome, but even with this awesome ability, do you think there is ever a circumstance in which it would be better to put down the tablet and pick up a pen and paper to send a message instead? What might it be?
While there are no strict rules out there with etiquette police to enforce them (thank goodness!), a good principle to keep in mind when it comes to questions like these is, what might you prefer if the tables were turned? What would mean the most to you, a virtual message or handwritten note or card, if:
a loved one passed away?
you found out you were seriously ill?
you got married?
you graduated from college?
you gave someone a gift?
you hosted someone in your home?
you went out of your way to help somebody?
These scenarios fit into three categories in which a handwritten message would probably be particularly appreciated: condolences, congratulations, and gratitude. These categories serve as a loose guide that can help you the next time you wonder, should it be handwritten?
An instance in which handwritten correspondence may be expected is if you were first contacted in that form, whether by letter or invitation (though many modern day invitations indicate that you can respond by calling or through a website).
Do you have a category or scenario to add to the list? Please share your thoughts!
-Abigail
